‘Do I have to tell a guy I’m a virgin?’I’m worried he’ll think I’ll turn out to be clingy or in love with him or somethingSun Sept 09 2018 - 07:00
I’m a PhD student and I keep fantasising about my supervisor. What should I do?He’s not even incredibly good-looking, but I just find how his mind works irresistibleSun Sept 02 2018 - 07:00
‘How do I know if I’m any good at sex?’Ask Roe: I’ve read that women often feel uncomfortable asking for what they wantSun Aug 26 2018 - 07:00
‘My flatmate walks around naked and I don’t like it’Ask Roe: Does this count as her violating my consent, and what can I do?Sun Aug 19 2018 - 07:00
‘I have panic attacks for weeks after I have sex’Ask Roe: This has made me want to have sex less as I fear the possibility of an unplanned pregnancySun Aug 12 2018 - 07:00
‘I love my fiance but worry about being with one person for the rest of my life’Dear Roe: Am I being arrogant thinking I am above marriage?Sun Aug 05 2018 - 00:00
‘I’m worried I am addicted to my ex’We were a terrible couple – we should never have been together – but I can’t stop thinking about having sex with himSun Jul 29 2018 - 07:00
‘Our son has come out as gay. How do we support him?’Ask Roe: We’re worried our own beliefs stopped him speaking to us soonerSun Jul 22 2018 - 07:00
‘I'm dating a guy I really like but am tempted to sleep with someone else’‘Even though I’m not in an exclusive relationship, I think I’d feel like it was cheating’Sun Jul 15 2018 - 07:00
‘I use dating apps but find them terrible. What am I doing wrong?’Ask Roe: I find dating apps to be a mess of boring messages and empty profilesSun Jul 08 2018 - 07:00
‘I feel like I’m ruining the mood by asking for condoms’If we’re so focused on being ‘sexy’ that we end up having bad sex, something is seriously rottenSun Jul 01 2018 - 06:30
‘I am madly in love with a man who has dumped me’Ask Roe: It has been five months since he called it day but I believe he is the love of my lifeSat Jun 23 2018 - 16:00
‘I’ve met a really kind, attractive man but I’ve noticed he used to be skinnier’Ask Roe: Judging a new man by his old, slimmer photosSun Jun 17 2018 - 07:00
‘I’m in love with a woman in work. Should I tell her?’I am in two minds about saying something, as she has a boyfriend. I want to tell her so she knows how I feelSun Jun 10 2018 - 07:00
‘I’m 45, we’ve not had sex in ages and now my husband is watching porn’Ask Roe: ‘How can I forgive him and can our relationship ever recover?’Sun Jun 03 2018 - 07:00
I’m a pro-choice woman but don’t feel joy after the referendumOpinion: Anger and sadness can co-exist with relief and gratitude. They don’t negate one anotherMon May 28 2018 - 12:10
He says I’m the love of his life and I don’t know how to leave himAsk Roe: ‘I have tried to break up so often, but he is not letting the relationship go’Sun May 27 2018 - 07:00
‘My boyfriend loses interest in sex after he orgasms’Ask Roe: I know he genuinely loves me and I love him but I find this situation very frustratingSun May 20 2018 - 09:40
‘My girlfriend has put on weight and I’m not attracted to her any more’Ask Roe: I know this question doesn’t make me look greatSun May 13 2018 - 07:00
‘I’m 38 and divorced, so why do men in their 20s want to date me?’Ask Roe: I want to start a new relationship but am wary that younger men just want sexSat May 05 2018 - 12:00
‘I’m in love with a man I’m having sex with but he doesn’t love me back’At the start it was pretty casual, but about two months ago I realised I was falling for himSun Apr 29 2018 - 06:00
‘I’m worried about my judgment when it comes to sex’Ask Roe: I was sexually assaulted and am worried it has messed up my idea of sexSun Apr 22 2018 - 07:00
‘My younger sister is having one-night stands with random men’Dear Roe: How can I make her see that she needs to be careful?Sun Apr 15 2018 - 07:00
‘How do I stop faking orgasms?’At the heart of this issue is our prioritising of male pleasure and the male ego over women’s sexual fulfilmentSun Apr 08 2018 - 07:00
Everything you want to know about consent but were afraid to askA troubling lesson from the Belfast rape trial is that our understanding of what consent is is unclearSat Apr 07 2018 - 06:00
‘My partner lasts only a few minutes in bed. Any advice?’Dear Roe: He’s generous with oral sex, but don’t I know how to deal with his problemSun Apr 01 2018 - 07:00
Our ‘shock’ at sex, porn and misogyny prevents vital conversationsWe are refusing to engage with these issues and acknowledge uncomfortable truthsSat Mar 31 2018 - 06:00
My partner wants sex every night and sulks if I don’t agreeDear Roe: I’ve spoken to him many times, but he reverts to the same behaviourSun Mar 25 2018 - 07:00
How do I tell my colleagues I’m gay?Dear Roe: Finance worker has kept his sexuality to himself but wants that to changeSun Mar 18 2018 - 07:00
My gender-neutral friend wants to be described as ‘them’I want to be supportive but it’s difficult. I don’t understand what gender nonbinary isSun Mar 04 2018 - 07:01
‘Sex is difficult and sometimes impossible for me’Dear Roe: After Googling I think I may have vaginismus, but I’m not sureSun Mar 04 2018 - 07:00
‘How do I know if someone is flirting with me?’Dear Roe: ‘I’m a guy in my mid-20s who finds it difficult to know when somebody is into me’Sun Feb 25 2018 - 07:00
‘When should I ask a casual partner about his sexual health?’Ask Roe: I enjoy casual sex, and use condoms, but I’m paranoid about catching an STISat Feb 17 2018 - 14:48
‘My partner has no sexual appetite. I’m considering visiting an escort’Our relationship is perfect in every other way and I don’t want it to endSun Feb 11 2018 - 07:00
I’m seeing a bisexual man who hasn’t dated men beforeI’m worried about spending more time with him only to discover he's not interested in meSun Jan 28 2018 - 00:00
Why do we pretend the female orgasm is an elusive mystery?Damaging stereotypes limit the types of sexual pleasure that women should haveSun Jan 21 2018 - 07:00
‘I’ve never dated anyone or had sex. I feel like a failure’This makes it harder for me to try going on dates, even though I want toSun Jan 14 2018 - 00:00
‘I love my partner but I’m lacking lust. How do I get my sex life back?’It’s important that you feel sexy and sexual in yourself, so focus on some self-careSat Jan 06 2018 - 12:13
Is it normal for a woman to fart when she orgasms?It doesn’t bother my boyfriend, but I’m incredibly embarrassed by itSat Dec 23 2017 - 06:00
How do I talk to my teenage sons about pornography?I don’t want to ignore the issue but I’ve no idea how I’m supposed to raise the topicSun Dec 17 2017 - 07:00
How many sexual partners is ‘too many’?I don’t regret any, but I know I’ve had more sexual partners than my two best friendsSun Dec 10 2017 - 07:00
How do I tell my girlfriend about my secret cross-dressing?I have a profile on a swingers’ site and I’m always being told I look great when dressed upSun Dec 03 2017 - 07:00
My long-distance partner wants cyber sex. I don’tHe knows I’m uncomfortable with the idea. Is he being disrespectful?Sat Nov 25 2017 - 00:00
‘I keep fantasising about a woman in work’I love my wife deeply but I have developed an intense attraction to a beautiful colleagueSun Nov 19 2017 - 08:00
‘Anti-depressants made my life better, but not my sex life’My husband and I used to have sex often. Now it’s dwindled to almost nothingSun Nov 12 2017 - 06:00
‘I feel like I have to lose weight before having sex with my boyfriend’Ask Roe: A woman wonders whether it's ok to make her boyfriend wait until she's comfortableSat Nov 04 2017 - 00:00
‘Should I give my teen son condoms even though I don’t want him to have sex?’Dear Roe: The issue here is your attitude towards sex and what you want your son’s to beSat Oct 28 2017 - 00:00
‘My partner is too stressed for sex and I’m feeling rejected’Having a partner say no is not about failure. It means you’re in a long-term relationshipSat Oct 21 2017 - 06:00
The future of sex for Irish womenThe internet and advances in technology are enabling Irish women to explore their sexuality, but what does this mean for sexual equality, and what does the future hold?Sat Feb 11 2017 - 09:15
Roe McDermott: ‘We didn’t work out, but I wasn’t left with scars. For me, that was a revelation’By getting away from it all, one slowly comes to realise how much home is missedSat Oct 15 2016 - 06:00
