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My son is always left on the sidelines at matches

My son is always left on the sidelines at matches

‘I don’t know how to manage or help him when he sobs that he is not good enough’

Sun May 14 2017 - 07:00
As a working mother how do I get time with my children?

As a working mother how do I get time with my children?

Send your parenting queries to health@irishtimes.com

Mon May 08 2017 - 11:20
When I returned to work, my son started screaming at night

When I returned to work, my son started screaming at night

Send your parenting queries to Dr John Sharry at health@irishtimes.com

Mon May 01 2017 - 06:00
How can we avoid tantrums in  shops over sweets?

How can we avoid tantrums in shops over sweets?

We dread taking our four-year-old into the shop now due to his aggressive outbursts

Mon Apr 24 2017 - 08:00
My 14-year-old suffers from severe anxiety over exams

My 14-year-old suffers from severe anxiety over exams

‘It can really help if she can identify her anxious thoughts and describe the impact’

Mon Apr 17 2017 - 07:00
My 11-year-old son is pushing to be independent, should I let him go?

My 11-year-old son is pushing to be independent, should I let him go?

If you have a parenting question, send your query to health@irishtimes.com

Sun Apr 09 2017 - 18:00
Is my son’s imaginary friend a real problem?

Is my son’s imaginary friend a real problem?

If you have a parenting query, send your question to health@irishtimes.com

Tue Apr 04 2017 - 06:00
Is my son overly dependent on his teddy?

Is my son overly dependent on his teddy?

Children become emotionally attached to objects but it is a natural phase that will pass

Sun Mar 26 2017 - 18:00
Dr John Sharry: Five steps to beating your child’s anxiety

Dr John Sharry: Five steps to beating your child’s anxiety

The last of the six-part series focuses on agreeing a plan of action with the child

Mon Mar 20 2017 - 19:00
What do you do if you split up at the start of your pregnancy?

What do you do if you split up at the start of your pregnancy?

If you have any parenting queries, send your questions to health@irishtimes.com

Mon Mar 13 2017 - 15:00
Giving your child tactics to tackle anxiety

Giving your child tactics to tackle anxiety

While a little bit of worry is a good thing too much is overwhelming

Mon Mar 06 2017 - 19:00
My daughter’s secret eating is a minefield. What can I do?

My daughter’s secret eating is a minefield. What can I do?

If you have a parenting query, send your question to health@irishtimes.com

Mon Feb 27 2017 - 12:00
Breathe, exercise, be body-aware: anti-anxiety tips for children

Breathe, exercise, be body-aware: anti-anxiety tips for children

John Sharry continues his series on dealing with anxiety. If you have a parenting query, send your question to health@irishtimes.com

Sun Feb 19 2017 - 00:00
One of my young twins stuffs herself at parties

One of my young twins stuffs herself at parties

I want to encourage healthy eating, but am afraid of creating a battleground over food

Sun Feb 12 2017 - 00:00
Anxious children: break the cycle the Sherlock Holmes way

Anxious children: break the cycle the Sherlock Holmes way

Playing a game of ‘detective’ can help your child move on from worrying too much

Sun Feb 05 2017 - 19:00
Talk with your kids: A worry shared may be a worry halved

Talk with your kids: A worry shared may be a worry halved

In helping anxious children, taking action is the antidote to S worry and rumination

Sun Feb 05 2017 - 00:00
My five-year-old son has  major problems going to the toilet

My five-year-old son has major problems going to the toilet

The accidents have never happened at school or with the childminder, just at home

Sun Jan 29 2017 - 16:37
Anxious parents can produce anxious children, so take a breath

Anxious parents can produce anxious children, so take a breath

How to break the pattern of reacting unhelpfully to your child’s anxiety

Mon Jan 23 2017 - 06:00
My 8-year-old daughter can be quite judgmental

My 8-year-old daughter can be quite judgmental

Ask the Expert: My child is a perfectionist who can view others in a negative way

Sun Jan 15 2017 - 06:00
Well-behaved children can be hiding their social anxiety

Well-behaved children can be hiding their social anxiety

Frequently, they don’t draw attention to themselves, which means they suffer in silence

Sun Jan 08 2017 - 18:00
‘All she wants to do is fit in but I just want her to be herself’

‘All she wants to do is fit in but I just want her to be herself’

Being accepted by their peers is a big issue for teens, all a normal part of growing up

Mon Jan 02 2017 - 18:00
'Tis the season to be jolly, but all I feel is stress'

'Tis the season to be jolly, but all I feel is stress'

Brexit has hit my business hard and money for the children’s gifts is scarce this Christmas

Mon Dec 19 2016 - 15:00
Toilet training our two-year-old is a bit of a strain

Toilet training our two-year-old is a bit of a strain

Toilet training for most is characterised by fits and starts and setbacks

Sun Dec 11 2016 - 12:00
How do I help my son face the Christmas play?

How do I help my son face the Christmas play?

One the best strategies for overcoming anxiety is to approach it gradually and to overcome it in small step

Mon Dec 05 2016 - 10:10
My seven-year-old son struggles to go to sleep

My seven-year-old son struggles to go to sleep

Take action and you can help him break the habit, says John Sharry

Sun Nov 27 2016 - 15:00
My daughter (10) is having anxiety ‘meltdowns’

My daughter (10) is having anxiety ‘meltdowns’

She ends up screaming, shouting and lashing out at her brother

Sun Nov 20 2016 - 20:00
Our son is a snack addict - he just won’t eat meals

Our son is a snack addict - he just won’t eat meals

We don’t want to give up on family meals but what can we do?

Sun Nov 13 2016 - 19:00
Ask the expert: The teacher says my grandson (4) is the ‘worst’

Ask the expert: The teacher says my grandson (4) is the ‘worst’

Teacher says he is disruptive, can’t take direction, is calling her stupid and is shouting

Sun Nov 06 2016 - 20:00
Ask the expert: ‘I can’t get through to my teenage son’

Ask the expert: ‘I can’t get through to my teenage son’

Child’s ‘relaxed’ nature is leading to rows and he forged my signature on a report card

Sun Oct 30 2016 - 19:00
Ask the expert: ‘How can we conquer the homework battle’

Ask the expert: ‘How can we conquer the homework battle’

Baking together is far more beneficial than an hour of homework the child finds boring

Sun Oct 23 2016 - 20:00
Ask the expert: ‘My 10-year-old son  is the class clown and always in trouble’

Ask the expert: ‘My 10-year-old son is the class clown and always in trouble’

‘I constantly have to coach my son about his manners. He can be quite rude at times’

Sun Oct 16 2016 - 19:00
Healthy eating: How to say no to pester power

Healthy eating: How to say no to pester power

Encouraging healthy eating, part 3: putting aspirations into practice

Mon Oct 10 2016 - 19:00
Ask the expert: ‘Would a dog help my daughter’s selective mutism?’

Ask the expert: ‘Would a dog help my daughter’s selective mutism?’

Improvements in selective mutism are gradual. The key is to slowly expand progress

Sun Oct 09 2016 - 19:00
Why you need to stop bribing your children with treats

Why you need to stop bribing your children with treats

Developing healthy eating habits at home means saying ‘no’ to children sometimes

Mon Oct 03 2016 - 17:00
How to cope with a  troubled, tearaway teenage son

How to cope with a troubled, tearaway teenage son

I feel I have failed in being a mother. I have run out of ideas on how to talk to my ADHD son

Sun Oct 02 2016 - 18:00
Caught in a cycle of bad eating habits? Help is at hand  . . .

Caught in a cycle of bad eating habits? Help is at hand . . .

Start small and use positive thinking to motivate everyone in the family to change

Sun Oct 02 2016 - 17:18
My son can’t sleep after seeing a scary picture

My son can’t sleep after seeing a scary picture

My eight-year-old son was shown a character from an over-18s movie by his friends

Sun Sept 25 2016 - 19:00
Want to establish healthy eating patterns at home? Here’s how

Want to establish healthy eating patterns at home? Here’s how

Children are bombarded by ads for unhealthy treats, so get them into good habits

Mon Sept 19 2016 - 19:00

Ask the expert: My five-year-old is selectively mute

Lots of children are quiet or shy, but not speaking due to anxiety is a more serious problem

Mon Sept 19 2016 - 10:57
Is my shouting making my son’s rough behaviour worse?

Is my shouting making my son’s rough behaviour worse?

‘My son (3) kicked the childminder in the face ... I blame myself for his bad behaviour’

Sun Sept 11 2016 - 18:36
Ask the expert: My son (10) is struggling with grief for his grandad

Ask the expert: My son (10) is struggling with grief for his grandad

His grandfather died four years ago. Should my son be doing better?

Sun Sept 04 2016 - 19:00
How can you help your child to make a difference?

How can you help your child to make a difference?

The power of helping others is as true for children and young people as it is for adults

Sun Aug 28 2016 - 18:00
How can you teach your children responsibility?

How can you teach your children responsibility?

When a child first learns to feed themselves, they feel a delight that they are in charge

Fri Aug 26 2016 - 14:36
Ask the Expert: Is my son too immature to cope with secondary school?

Ask the Expert: Is my son too immature to cope with secondary school?

My son has been very protected in a small primary school until now

Sun Aug 21 2016 - 18:00
How to encourage your child’s potential . . . from toddler to teen

How to encourage your child’s potential . . . from toddler to teen

Saying ‘don’t be shy’ or ‘has the cat got your tongue?’ can increase his anxiety

Thu Aug 11 2016 - 20:17
Ask the expert: My 11-year-old daughter is struggling to make friends

Ask the expert: My 11-year-old daughter is struggling to make friends

Three-way or group play dates can be fraught with problems

Sun Aug 07 2016 - 19:00
Has my shouting damaged my children?

Has my shouting damaged my children?

‘My daughter seems fine but my little boy is sensitive and I know he gets upset’

Sun Jul 24 2016 - 20:16
Can you help your child find their niche in the world?

Can you help your child find their niche in the world?

In part three of this series, John Sharry looks at how to build your child's self-esteem

Sun Jul 17 2016 - 19:47
Ask the expert: Our daughter is struggling since the death of a classmate

Ask the expert: Our daughter is struggling since the death of a classmate

She is struggling to get a proper night’s sleep and is very anxious before going to bed

Sun Jul 10 2016 - 19:00
It's not enough to love your kids equally

It's not enough to love your kids equally

In part two of this series, John Sharry looks at how we need to love our children uniquely, not just equally

Sun Jul 03 2016 - 19:00
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