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My seven-year-old bursts into tears when I try to discipline her

My seven-year-old bursts into tears when I try to discipline her

Ask the Expert: She appears to over-react and get upset and has written me an apology note

Sun May 26 2019 - 16:01
My teen daughter has become really anxious about climate change

My teen daughter has become really anxious about climate change

Acknowledge her feelings of anxiety and worry and how understandable they are

Sun May 19 2019 - 16:01
Our toddler has become clingy and suffers separation anxiety after birth of new baby

Our toddler has become clingy and suffers separation anxiety after birth of new baby

Ask the Expert: She became very upset when we left her with a new childminder and now won’t even stay with her grandparents

Sun May 12 2019 - 16:01
‘My one-year-old won’t sleep in his cot and ends up in our bed’

‘My one-year-old won’t sleep in his cot and ends up in our bed’

‘There is no one right way to approach sleep problems and a lot depends on what you want as parents’

Sun May 05 2019 - 22:19
How do I stop my boy putting his hands down his pants?

How do I stop my boy putting his hands down his pants?

Ask the Expert: He doesn’t even notice he’s doing it but even his teacher has commented

Sun Apr 28 2019 - 16:01
Lying and ‘spying’ on social media linked to low self-esteem

Lying and ‘spying’ on social media linked to low self-esteem

Sign of the Times: Irish survey is latest to link poor mental health with use of technology

Sat Apr 27 2019 - 06:00
How can we train our eight-month-old to get back to sleep by herself?

How can we train our eight-month-old to get back to sleep by herself?

She has started waking up constantly during the night and I am becoming exhausted

Sun Apr 21 2019 - 16:01
My 5-year-old wants a sleepover with a friend – is she too young?

My 5-year-old wants a sleepover with a friend – is she too young?

Ask the Expert: Should I let it go ahead or hold my ground until she is older?

Sun Apr 14 2019 - 16:01
My son will not use the toilet and will poo only when wearing a nappy

My son will not use the toilet and will poo only when wearing a nappy

Rushing toilet training or adding parental pressure can easily backfire

Sun Apr 07 2019 - 16:01
My teenage daughter’s social media use has become really obsessive

My teenage daughter’s social media use has become really obsessive

Ask the Expert: I am really worried about her obsessive behaviour. What can I do?

Tue Apr 02 2019 - 07:01
My 16-year-old has become obsessed with make-up

My 16-year-old has become obsessed with make-up

As her dad I should probably stay out of it but I’m worried about how insecure she must be

Sun Mar 24 2019 - 16:01
My 15-year-old daughter is fighting with everyone all the time

My 15-year-old daughter is fighting with everyone all the time

Our household has become very tense how can we improve things?

Sun Mar 17 2019 - 16:01
My son gets anxious and worked up about things and this worries me

My son gets anxious and worked up about things and this worries me

Ask the Expert: ‘His anxiety does wear on me and sometimes I react impatiently’

Sun Mar 10 2019 - 16:01
Should I tell my son about his diagnoses?

Should I tell my son about his diagnoses?

Ask the Expert: I worry do we need to get him further assessed or to address the psychiatrist’s report

Tue Mar 05 2019 - 06:01
My bubbly 13-year-old daughter is being excluded at school

My bubbly 13-year-old daughter is being excluded at school

We are wondering if we should consider moving her to a smaller school

Sun Feb 24 2019 - 16:01
My 11-year-old son has really low self-esteem

My 11-year-old son has really low self-esteem

Ask the Expert: My son keeps saying he is stupid and has no friends

Sun Feb 17 2019 - 16:01
Health and wellbeing are tied up in the quality of our familial relationships

Health and wellbeing are tied up in the quality of our familial relationships

Healthy Families: The closer we are to the people we love, the happier we feel

Sun Feb 10 2019 - 11:00
Healthy Families: Getting enough sleep and rest

Healthy Families: Getting enough sleep and rest

A relaxed bedtime routine is a key component of a healthy family

Sun Feb 03 2019 - 16:01
Healthy Families: managing screens and technology in the home

Healthy Families: managing screens and technology in the home

Managing screens and technology in the home

Sun Jan 27 2019 - 16:01
Healthy families: The importance of enjoying mealtimes together

Healthy families: The importance of enjoying mealtimes together

How to make time for your family over food and dealing with ‘fussy eaters’

Sun Jan 20 2019 - 16:01
Healthy Families: Replacing bad habits with good ones

Healthy Families: Replacing bad habits with good ones

With a little time and patience families can break bad habits by working together

Sun Jan 13 2019 - 12:40
Healthy families: Bringing up happy and healthy children

Healthy families: Bringing up happy and healthy children

By taking small steps, we can dramatically improve our own and our children’s health and well-being

Sun Jan 06 2019 - 16:01
Girls are spreading rumours in school that my daughter is gay

Girls are spreading rumours in school that my daughter is gay

I am worried about escalating things, so what is the best thing to do?

Sun Dec 16 2018 - 16:01
My eight-year-old daughter’s violent tantrums are getting worse

My eight-year-old daughter’s violent tantrums are getting worse

When we correct her about something, she kicks, hits, punches and becomes extremely violent and verbally abusive

Sun Dec 09 2018 - 13:01
‘My son worries he might be viewed as a bully’

‘My son worries he might be viewed as a bully’

Ask the expert: ‘The incidents happened two years ago, but he can’t get past them’

Sun Dec 02 2018 - 16:01
My 10-year-old has been bullied for two years by a girl in her class

My 10-year-old has been bullied for two years by a girl in her class

She calls my daughter ‘ugly’, ‘stupid’ and ‘a cheat’ but the school principal has dismissed my concerns

Sun Nov 25 2018 - 16:01
‘Our 16-year-old is lonely because she can’t go out with her drinking friends’

‘Our 16-year-old is lonely because she can’t go out with her drinking friends’

Should we let her go out with the girls, even though they are drinking under-age and going to pubs?

Sun Nov 18 2018 - 16:01
My 10-year-old girl is stealing treats and then lying about it

My 10-year-old girl is stealing treats and then lying about it

We find the wrappers under her bed but she still denies it

Sun Nov 11 2018 - 16:01
I am a working mother who just can’t get everything done

I am a working mother who just can’t get everything done

To achieve a more relaxed routine, you need to focus on the priorities each evening

Sun Nov 04 2018 - 14:01
I face a daily battle with my daughter over homework

I face a daily battle with my daughter over homework

Huge focus on homework at primary school level can be counterproductive and damaging

Sun Oct 28 2018 - 16:01
‘My son says he feels of no value in secondary school’

‘My son says he feels of no value in secondary school’

Ask the expert: ‘He told me he hides in the locker room in school for some breaks’

Sun Oct 21 2018 - 16:01
My 20-month-old daughter is holding on and avoiding going to the toilet

My 20-month-old daughter is holding on and avoiding going to the toilet

She seems to be getting obsessed, and distressed, about pees and poos

Sun Oct 14 2018 - 16:01
My daughter is painfully shy and won’t talk in a group

My daughter is painfully shy and won’t talk in a group

She is an only child, and I worry that she is missing out on being egged on by siblings

Sun Oct 07 2018 - 16:01
‘I’m an exhausted mum with small children and no support’

‘I’m an exhausted mum with small children and no support’

‘I’m losing it with them and not coping but my husband ignores my pleas for help’

Sun Sept 30 2018 - 13:01
My 15-year-old son is heartbroken his girlfriend has broken up with him

My 15-year-old son is heartbroken his girlfriend has broken up with him

He says it’s my fault because I wanted the relationship to end and that I don’t care about him

Sun Sept 23 2018 - 11:01
My 7-year-old is very grumpy and says no to everything

My 7-year-old is very grumpy and says no to everything

In trying to help your son, it is important to understand why he might be negative and grumpy at home

Sun Sept 16 2018 - 16:01
My 10-year-old has fallen out with a neighbour’s child – what should I do?

My 10-year-old has fallen out with a neighbour’s child – what should I do?

In resolving things, the key is to do what you can to de-escalate the dispute

Sun Sept 09 2018 - 16:01
My eight-year-old is vomiting due to worry in the morning

My eight-year-old is vomiting due to worry in the morning

She was so anxious about summer camp she was sick. We are now worried about school

Sun Sept 02 2018 - 16:00
My daughter is not being honest with me about meeting boys

My daughter is not being honest with me about meeting boys

Work to keep lines of communication open as children switch to needing more privacy

Sun Aug 26 2018 - 12:01
I want to leave my partner and move back with the kids to Ireland

I want to leave my partner and move back with the kids to Ireland

I’m finding it a struggle to bring them up in Portugal but their father won’t discuss leaving

Sun Aug 19 2018 - 16:01
My son with Aspergers has dropped out of social activities

My son with Aspergers has dropped out of social activities

A parent is concerned about their child’s anxiety around social involvements

Sun Jul 29 2018 - 16:01
Should my son attend a mainstream or special school?

Should my son attend a mainstream or special school?

Parents face a real dilemma as experts often disagree regarding the best option

Sun Jul 22 2018 - 16:01
My husband finds it hard to accept our daughter has autism

My husband finds it hard to accept our daughter has autism

He says she is just ‘quirky’. I am coping alone and we are fighting a lot over this

Sun Jul 15 2018 - 16:01
My daughter has started throwing tantrums like her brother, who has special needs

My daughter has started throwing tantrums like her brother, who has special needs

Listen to what is challenging for her and thank her for the ways she helps in the family

Sun Jul 08 2018 - 16:01
‘How can we get our upset 13-year-old daughter to talk to us?’

‘How can we get our upset 13-year-old daughter to talk to us?’

Ask the Expert: I found her crying on her bed the other day and I am very worried

Sun Jul 01 2018 - 11:19
Our 13-year-old is doing no exercise and eating rubbish all day long

Our 13-year-old is doing no exercise and eating rubbish all day long

Classmates have mentioned her weight to her and I am worried this is bothering her

Sun Jun 24 2018 - 16:01
Girls in my daughter’s class are calling her fat

Girls in my daughter’s class are calling her fat

I told her the next time it happens, to call the other girl ugly. Is this bad advice?

Sun Jun 17 2018 - 04:01
My daughter is stealing, hoarding food and secret eating

My daughter is stealing, hoarding food and secret eating

The first thing you can do is to try and break the shame and secrecy your daughter feels about the problem

Sun Jun 10 2018 - 16:00
My daughter feels left out as her brothers are best friends

My daughter feels left out as her brothers are best friends

My eldest son is jealous of his little sister and she is jealous of her brothers’ friendship

Sun May 27 2018 - 16:01
My son’s frequent nightmares are keeping us all from a good night’s sleep

My son’s frequent nightmares are keeping us all from a good night’s sleep

I’ve tried everything to relax him at bedtime but he still wakes very distressed most nights

Sun May 20 2018 - 06:00
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